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Redlipstickhas always made feel extremely self-conscious, like a life-size caricature.

SELF staffer Talia Abbas drinking a cup of coffee with red lipstick

Cristina Cianci

Its also daunting to apply and exhausting to touch up throughout the day, so I avoided wearing it.

Who are these bold creatures and why couldnt I be one of them?

Ahead, read about all the practical and personal things I learned along the way.

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Buy it:Avene’s Cold Cream Lip Butter, $16, andCYO’s Two Clever By Half Lipstick & Liner, $6.

I enjoyed playing around withnew formulas and textures, including my new favorite, a liquid powder.

Have you ever noticed your lipstick bleeding around the contours of your lips?

To avoid this, Giglio recommends a lip-prep product thats not super emollient.

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Buy it:Undone Beauty Moisturizing Sheer Balm Tint in Clear, $5, andOrigins Blooming Bold Lipstick in Poppy Pout, $20.

She likes theFresh Sugar Lip Serum Advanced Therapy, $36, because its hydrating without a heavy texture.

I only used a lip scrub once this week.

I scrubbed my lips with the Kopari scrub in the morning and applied the balm quickly after.

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Buy it:Fresh’s Zodiac Sugar Lip Treatments, $26, andChanel Rouge Allure Liquid Powder in Radical, $30.

I love the smell, its like coconut slivers dipped in fresh caramel.

Is it bad I wanted to lick it off?

To create a defined lip line, Giglio suggests going around the outside of your lips withfoundation.

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Buy it:Dr. Bronner’s Organic Lip Balm Peppermint, $3,SEPHORA COLLECTION PRO Lip Brush #85, $16, andDecorté The Rouge High-Gloss Lipstickin RD453, $35.

She recommends theStila Perfectly Poreless Putty Perfector, $39.

I wasnt immune to it.

The first few days, I couldnt have been happier to go home and wipe everything off.

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Buy it:Kopari’s Coconut Lip Glossy, $12, andDior’s Rouge Dior Ultra Rouge Lipstick, $37.

A pointed cotton swab was key for touching up any smudges or lipstick bleeding.

I really like cotton swabs because theyre so easy to throw in your (makeup) bag.

Its such a simple little trick that really helped me nail coloring within the lines.

Can I just put it out there that total strangers are so much nicer when you wear red lipstick?

I forgot my subway card at home and a stranger gave me his round-trip fare.

Or did he have secret powers that sensed I was writing a story and needed some good material?

Whatever it is, Ill take it!

I mostly kept my hair down, but sometimes would tie it in a low bun.

One thing I was constantly paying attention to is what my lips were touching.

And unless your significant other doesnt mind red-stained lips, save the kissing for later.

I had this subtle sense that something had changed.

Oh, and weeks later, Im still wearing it.