Wait, no, scratch that last one.

Unfortunately, some people haven’t quite gotten the memo.

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Deciding not to have kids is a huge, life-altering choice.

Does that mean if you never have them, your life just never starts?

Because in your opinion, yours is already full of all sorts of exciting things.

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Does that officially make you a ghost?

It can be gut-wrenching when your parents desperately want grandchildren that you know you won’t provide.

Luckily if you have siblings, they might take one for the team.

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Also, that’s an extremely personal question.

Maybe you do, maybe you don’t.

Maybe it got lost in the mail?

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Really though, a maternal instinct isn’t a requirement for being a woman.

Both are totally fine.

Second, categorically false.

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Third, is that really supposed to sell you on it?

Again, on its own, this is not a compelling enough reason to create a human being.

This is pretty high on the list of impossible questions to answer.

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Its not an active choice to feel this way."

Not having a kid doesn’t mean children and other adorably helpless creatures can’t benefit from your awesomeness.

Right, but it won’t matter because you don’t want kids in the first place!

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Not contributing to the overpopulation of the planet is selfish?

How about everyone agrees that either option is legitimate and leaves it at that?

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