In March, I went through a heinousbreakup.
I was shocked by my then-boyfriend’s decision to break things off (via text message!
), and I wasnotdoing well emotionally.
Graphic by Cristina Cianci
For some reason, I thought it would be smart to binge-watch theNetflixshowLove.
Let me tell you, that was a bad idea.
There was zero emotional respite to be found.
My instinct to turn to Netflix mid-heartbreak isn’t unique.
Here, 19 people share the TV shows and movies they’ve relied on in times of emotional need.
The Walking Dead
“I love watchingThe Walking Deadright after a breakup for a few reasons.
Third, cheesy as it sounds, the show reminds me to be brave.
After all, I’m only facing my own heartnot brain-eating zombies.
Finally, when all else fails, I can picture my ex getting attacked by a zombie.
And that’s pretty gratifying.”
Joanna R., 46
Gossip Girl
“Gossip Girlis my number one.
I once watched all seven seasons after a breakup.The Devil Wears Pradais pretty great, too.
(It creates this weird sense of camaraderie that I find oddly comforting.)
The visuals in the film are aesthetically pleasing, too.
Also, it’s just one of the most beautifully shot movies I’ve ever seen.”
Ana Z., 45
The Other Woman
“I love the wayThe Other Womanchampions female friendship.
Elaine T., 24
Harry Potter
“When I’m heartbroken, I typically turn toHarry Potter.
Plus,Harry Potterreminds me of my childhood, when I didn’t really know what heartbreak was yet.
It makes me feelnostalgicand comfortableand less like I want to rip my heart out.”
Jess (Zoey Deschanel) and her charming roommates cure all.”
Plus, there are no romantic subplots."
In fact, it’s not bad at all."
Morgan M., 24
*Quotes have been edited and condensed for clarity.
