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For starters, the anal region is rich in sensitive nerve endings that can make it apleasure gold mine.
That makes it a surprisingly effective way to get that elusive G-spot stimulation.
The rectum holds a lot of tension, she tells SELF.
We naturally tense up when something new is introduced to that area.
Let your partner know what feels good, what doesnt, and what sensations youd like to explore further.
And if something hurts, stop.
Finn says anal sex should never hurt or feel uncomfortable.
She also warns against using numbing creams.
Silicone-based lubes erode silicone toys, which means youll have to replace them more frequently.
Youll probably notice that these all have one thing in common: a flared base.
And one last thing: Each toys instructions vary.
Plus, the flared base will keep the toy fromgetting lostanywhere it shouldnt.
The beads increase in size from 0.25 inches to 1 inch around, allowing you to customize your play.
Not to mention, the vibrations provide additional stimulation.
Lovehoney representative Sammi Cole recommends pulling the beads out when youre about to climax to intensify the stimulation.
But do this slowly, Cole tells SELF.
You aren’t starting a lawnmower.
Plus, this toys slender, tapered end makes it easy to insert.
The base is thin, so as to fit between your buttcheeks, explains sex educatorBex Caputo.
Butt plugs with round bases make me mad, because thats not what butts are shaped like.
B-Vibe Snug Plug
This petite butt plug is suitable for even the most apprehensive of anal newbies.
The thin neck makes it really comfortable to wear, Sparks says.
The soft silicone is going to be more comfortable for the person penetrating you, he explains.
The slight curve of the Spur also targets the G-spot or P-spot nicely.
We-Vibe Vector Vibrating Anal Plug
Anal aficionados in long-distance relationships will especially appreciate this app-controlled prostate vibrator.
Vibrations can be really helpful for relaxing the pelvic floor, she explains.
Lovehoney Butt Tingler
Having trouble relaxing enough for anal sex?
This vibrating butt plug could be the solution.
Njoy Fun Wand
Think you might want to enjoy some anal pleasure while youre receiving oral sex?
Caputo says this is the ideal tool for that.
