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Pick up a sex toy or accessory thatll intensify your time under the sheets.
A gift like that can lastallyearand, really, its a treat for both you and your partner.
The point is scheduling time to engage in whatever activities make you feel more closely connected.
Bringing a new sex toy (or two) into your dynamic is one way to do just that.
Below, they break down why their picks are exactly what you need for this Valentines Day.
(Psst: Theyre all on sale atLovehoneyfor the holiday.)
Wondering how to use it?
No, you dont need to freak out.
Fear and discomfort around bondage and kink typically come out of misunderstanding what BDSM isand is not.
It kind of feels like there is a people who do kink camp and then a vanilla people camp.
It really isnt this way at all, Englepreviously wrotefor SELF.
Kink is super accessible to everyoneand a lot of us have either tried it or wanted to.
And Valentines Day could be the perfect time to make these dreams come true.
Thisbondage kitwill help you embrace teasing each otherbut in a good way.
Engle says theWe-Vibe Sync 2is one of her favorites.
to stimulate your clitoris.
The Sync 2 is also slim enough to fit inside you alongside a penis or dildo during penetrative sex.
Its also waterproof, in case you want to make your showers extra steamy.
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