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A lot of people who are new to vibrators think theyre all these massive, phallic, penis-mimicking objects.
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Sure, some are.
Like, you know, vibrate.
So vibrators are basically designed to make it as easy as possible for you to come.
You read these five tips, thats how.
Masturbate with your fingers first.
Getting to know your body is the first step in knowing what kind of vibrator might work for you.
This can bea lot, so dont worry if its not your thing.
(Or if anything sexual isnt your thing, really.)
Do you like the mix of stimulation?
Or are you more of an external or internal play person only?
If you have a partner and want them to be involved in your pre-vibrator exploration, go for it.
Do you enjoytheir tongue alone?
Does it feel good when they stimulate your G-spot in tandem with your clitoris?
Do you like one and then the other?
Ask yourself these questions before you shop.
Shop in the right places.
Do some research before you head to a sex toy shop (or buy online).
These highly curated stores do not mess around when it comes to quality.
Some of them even make their own toys.
I always recommend sticking with vibrators that are made from materials like medical-grade silicone or body-safe rubber.
(Heres more informationabout the different materials commonly used to make sex toys.)
Your vulva and vagina are too fabulous to touch them with anything that might not be healthy.
Begin with a smaller vibrator.
While perusing options, you may come across some humongous vibrators that seem intimidating.
As a beginner, it might be easier to go with something small.
I love theFin from Dame Products, theSquish from Unbound, and thePetite Wand from Le Wand.
Look at theJopen Amour Dual G Wand: Its smooth, sleek, and objectively not horrifying.
Consider starting with a budget-friendly vibe.
This is particularly important because various vibrators vibrate differently!
Some have a more rumbly feel, while others are lighter and buzzier.
You may find you prefer one style over the other, but you wont know before trying.
Remember you’re free to always buy a different one.
Dont put so much pressure on yourself that buying your first vibrator becomes a really stressful experience.
Were talking about a sextoy, emphasis on that playful part there.
So pick a vibrator that you find appealing and sexy.
It can just be thefirstone.
Once youve mastered this maiden voyage into vibrators, you’re able to always expand your collection.
There are so manyamazing sex toysto try.
Now go out there and make me proud.
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