“If you start early, dieting can become a lifestyle,” says Bulik.

“I plan to have protein,veggies and fruitat meals.

“I don’t know if it’s a diet, or just healthy living.”

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“We sit down instead of standing at the kitchen counter.

The rest of the day, Dolan says, “I don’t focus on food too much.

I enjoy it, but I don’t ritualize it.”

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“That’s a lot of power for one little number.”

“If I want a bag of chips, I’ll have it.

I don’t deny myself,” Dolan says.

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“Everyone needs Dairy Queen once in a while, right?”

At a party, she says, she’ll choose a glass of wine over cake.

“I might take a forkful of icing,” she says.

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And she knows when going whole hog is the happy choice.

“On holidays like Thanksgiving, I indulge.

I can enjoy it because it’s about being with my family,” she says.

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“I thank my mother for that,” says the stay-at-home mom in Toms River, New Jersey.

Food and body image are not her issuesexcept to the extent that other women single her out.

I was embarrassed and uncomfortable.

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I would never comment on what other women weigh or eat.”

“Give your body time to recover and your nextworkoutwill be of a higher quality.”