Have you everleft a dating experience feeling like a complete fool, wondering what the heck happened?
This problem often stems fromsinglewomen believing they can change someone’s desire for a relationship.
That is pure fantasy.
Yes, it’s up toyouto maintain standards for the treatment that you want and deserve.
Otherwise, the chances are extremely high that you have some serious embarrassment headed your way.
Here are the seven telltale signs to watch for that let you know they’re not serious about you.
They tell you they don’t want a relationship.
You go on afirst datewith someone who has many qualities you’re seeking.
They tell you right away they don’t want a relationship, then they engage you in interesting conversation.
You like them and decide to see where things go.
This is a big mistake.
When someone says they don’t want a relationship, you gotta believe them and move on.
They flirt with you but don’t ask you out.
This person, who you know from work, the gym, or church, is such aflirt!
They go out of their way to turn your head.
Funny thing is, they never ask you out.
Any person who wants to date you will ask you out.
If they don’t, there’s something holding them back, so it won’t work out.
They say they’ve never been in love.
This is a tough one.
Thoughts like these will leave you feeling foolish when they break it off.
Don’t fall for thisplease walk away.
They text but don’t have time to see you.
So many people love texting.
Imagine the ego boost of texting with a bunch of single gals.
If they were serious, they’d spend time with you in person.
They’renewly divorced, not ready for anything serious, but want to “see where things go.”
In your mind, you know things could go great because you’re a great catch.
So, you decide to take the chance.
When someone tells you they aren’t serious, they mean it.
Finish your glass of wine and say goodbye.
They bring “takeout” to your place, but you never go out.
Sounds cozy, right?
But this is actually the code for “booty call.”
They come over to your place, but they never take you out on a proper dinner date.
You always set up dates because they don’t.
When you call and ask them to do something, they agree to meet you.
But on the other hand, they never initiate anything.
Don’t be a placeholder if you don’t want to feel foolish.
If they don’t ask you out, regardless of the reason, drop them fast.
I understand that walking away is not easy.
Some people seem too cute, charming, or fun to reject them and resist their advances.
But you’re better off not wasting time with people who make a fool of you.
If you have any inkling or suspicion, move on.
There are plenty of good people out there for you to date.
