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It can sometimes feel like the biology of your vulva is playing hard to get with pleasure.
Leon Edler
before you dive in digging for gold, its helpful to know what exactly youre searching for.
But thats a silly misconception because your G-spot is actually an internal portion of yourclitoris.
First, some advice for any kind of G-spot stimulation.
Leon Edler
you might also just insert a finger or two (or enlist a partner to do so!
), applying some pressure on your G-spot with that curving come hither motion.
If youre into any or all of the above, then its worth venturing into the positions below.
Leon Edler
Just asking, Does this feel good for you?
And you want to avoid any unnecessary friction.
(Which can be super hot!)
Leon Edler
(Might we suggest a wedge-shapedsex pillowfor some supportive elevation?)
The penetrator thrusts in and out, controlling the motion as they would in your standard missionary.
(The penetrator is still entering from the back and can have their arms wrapped around the receiver.)
Leon Edler
Why its great:The legs-up positioning makes deep penetration more accessible, Stewart says.
(A pillow under the pelvis of the receiver can also make this pose more accessible.)
Orgasmically speaking, its basically a best-of-both-worlds scenario.
Leon Edler
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