Ahhh, Mellie Grant.

Is thereanyone else on TVwe love to hate (or just plain hate) more thanScandal’sresident mean girl?

Mellie can be nasty, but she certainly has a soft side.

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Below, a few times we just couldn’t help but root for Mellie.

Here’s to you, lady.

May you finally escape from being regularly stomped beneath your ex-husband’s giant feet.

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(FYI, friendsspoilers ahead!)

When Fitz calls her position as First Lady “ornamental.”

You know he chose those wordsjustto hurt her.

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When Fitz destroys her relationship with Andrew Nichols.

(Natch, this all went down several entire seasonsbeforeAndrew Nichols launched a vicious revenge plot against Liv.)

When she’s criticized for turning into “Sad Mellie” after her son’s death.

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Girl deserves a break.

Every time Fitz took a weeks-long break from actually running the country to pout about missing Olivia.

Guess who had to take the reins behind the scenes?

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Our girl Mellie, that’s who.

Clearly, life as a political wife is no piece of cake.

Everything about this is devastating.

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Each time Olivia walks into the White House for a private meeting with Fitz.

Mellie has to stomach what’sreallygoing onand what life really thinks of her.

When she leads an incredible, hours-long filibuster in support of Planned Parenthood.

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Don’t tell me you’re able to’t do this."

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