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Ive also learned that many of these same people have pretty unique tried-and-true ways to orgasm.
That can be frustrating and isolating, and we don’t talk about it enough.
It just means you’re not them.
Think of this list as some orgasm inspiration or some new tricks to try.
And hey, it’s also OK if chasing the elusive orgasm isn’t your thing at all.
I love the pressure and involving my thighs and quads before I orgasm.
Though I can come in different ways, this one is always the fastest.
Lola J., 30
2.
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3.
The vibrations supercharge my orgasms.
When Im flying solo, my go-to scenario includes a vibe on my clit and dildo for penetration.
Oh, and I do enjoy addingethical porninto the mix.
I get really turned on when I see someone else authentically experiencing pleasure.
Alicia S., 39
4.
Wildly enthusiastic vaginal and anal oral
When a partner enjoys eating pussy, it is my most favorite thing.
They really get in there!
I feel empowered and dominant during those times.
Kella M., 29
5.
Manual stimulation with guy-focused porn
When I’m by myself, I usually use one of three techniques.
One is just to rub my clitoral hood in counterclockwise circles with my right hand.
I’ll usually do this while watching porn of blowjobs, handjobs, or male masturbation.
Even though (or maybe because?)
Suzannah W., 28
6.
It rocks every part of me.
Krys G., 35
7.
Holly K., 30
8.
Putting a vibrator on her nipples
My nipples are a huge hot spot for me.
Shes in control, so I just lie there and allow her to do whatever she wants.
I orgasm pretty quickly from this.
Its super hot for both of us.
Jasmine N.*, 29
9.
Sunny R., 52
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