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And yet so many people dont take advantage of all their senses during theirsexual experiences.

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I also threw in some of my own recs as a sex educator myself.

Below, find some must-have products and services that will level up your sensation play.

Again, it toys with the tension between pain and pleasure.

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Most often this is directed at the butt, thighs, back, or chest.

Its a sleek silicone paddle, and its handle doubles as a dildo!

This handheld spiky pinwheel can be used all over the body.

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Temperature play

Another sensation play technique is temperature play.

Kassel suggests either heating them up by dropping them in a pot of hot (not boiling!)

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If youre in a hurry, running a toy under hot or cold water works too.

Try a versatile double-sided glass dildo ($30,Lovehoney).

Audio erotica and sexy audio stories are more prevalent and popular than ever before.

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No matter your gender and sexuality, there is something out there for you.

it’s possible for you to also check outtheseother audio porn apps and websites for more options.

Erotic ASMR differs from erotica in that its based in sensual sounds instead of storytelling.

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Think noises like whispering voices, sheets on skin, heavy breathing, and other sex sounds.

People who enjoy ASMR often describe a physically tingly feeling as a result, which may translate sexually.

There are quite a lot of things we can do to tease our taste buds.

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Looking for something sweet and fruity?

Try Royals top-rated strawberry-flavored condoms ($8,Royal) for oral sex.

No need to add a yeast infection to your playtime.

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It can create an intense sense of anticipation.

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Another extremely popular form of sensation play is nipple play.

Try a simple classic pair like the Dominix Deluxe Adjustable Tweezer Nipple Clamps ($17,Lovehoney).

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