What’s more, we dont want to!
My partner is always considering the other persons perspective.
And for her, it doesnt require effortit’s her default.
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As a result, our inevitable arguments are brief and constructive.
My partner takes it all in stride.
And you know what?
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Her patience just makes me want to fix whatever it is that needs fixing.
We arent a couple, we’re partners in crime, and its the best.
I was regrettably in a few moretraditionalrelationships in the past, and it was exhausting.
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With my partner, I dont have to “man up,” or be a slave to pride.
I am telling you, the patriarchy is the worst.
My partner graciously provides it.
Shes an especially gifted baker.
There is nothing I request more than her blueberry crisp; its stupid how good it is.
Remember Violet Beauregarde inCharlie and the Chocolate Factory?
Thats me after eating this unreal blueberry crisp.
Even when things are total garbage, she makes an effort to see a silver lining.
My partner, being completely genuine, said, Its okay Zach, you did a really good job.
Absolutely nothing escapes her vortex of positivity, and that’s gotten us through some tough times.
When things are *Jem-and-the-Holograms-*the-movie-bad, I venture to imagine what my partner would do.
I dive in headfirst, hope for the best, and adjust if I need to.
This can be an awesome way to live, but sometimes my freewheeling can get me in trouble.
My partner is the complete opposite: she is a planner, a think-before-you-talker, and a rule follower.
We all have mundane superpowers.
For example, if parallel parking were an Olympic sport, I would be on the national team.
Such gems includeWhen a Stranger Calls, Enough, Dreamcatcher,andThe Tourist.