I was recently working in a cafe when a dad strolled in with his toddler daughter.
I always assumed I’d have children, and that little girl would have only reinforced that idea.
While I’m still undecided, the following nine women have decided they’re inthe childfree camp.
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But to be completely honest, sometimes I do wonder if it’s the right choice.
Luckily, I’m married to a woman, so it’s not an issue anymore.
I’ve never doubted my decision.
But you don’t have to have a toddler to go to the science center, I promise you.
were just as valid in our society.
I’m finally at an age where people respect my decision, but there are some downsides.
You’ll change your mind.'
The truth is that every once in a while, I do question whether it’s the right decision.
Then I just go curl up with a book and enjoy the childless silence."
Don’t get me wrongI have a tremendous amount of respect for people who decide to become parents.
I feel sad when other women get pushed into thinking that their decision not to havechildrenisn’t ‘legitimate.’
Also, depression and alcoholism run strong in my family, and the world today is not so kind!
My parents have always respected my decision not to have kids.
My sister, on the other hand, feels strongly that I should have them.
Even my current one indicated that she would only consider it in two years when Im 38.
But my current partner tried to get a vasectomy when he was 15we’re so on the same page.
My job deals with sex and sexuality, so I live a pretty alternative life.
From what Ive seen of human nature, many people would not be kind to a child of mine.
To fully do the work that I do, Ive chosen not to have a traditional family.
Ive had people imply that Ive made the wrong life choices because it meant I wouldnt have kids.
But its not a womansjobto have children.
Also, I was born not that long after Hiroshima and Nagasaki.
I keep meeting men who become very offended that they can’t change my mind.
Loved ones have gotten used to it, but I still think my parents wish things were different.
But I know what’s right for me.
I enjoy a full life and am not missing anything."
She laughed and responded that I was a bit young to decide that and I might change my mind.
Rachel W., 46
Quotes have been edited and condensed for clarity.
