Not in rebellion against her upbringing, but inspired by it.
McDonald-Mosleys parents' first child was born when they were still in their teens.
Years later, they watched another child contract HIV.
Jennifer Graylock/Planned Parenthood
Having an evidence based sex education program across the country would be my dream, she tells SELF.
The ideal curriculum would address the basics of anatomy, including the differences in peoples bodies and sexual responses.
It would include an understanding of sexual orientation, gender identity… My mother was a youngteen mothershe had her first child when she was only 15.
In middle school I remember having a health class where we did this activityit was really quite interesting.
The activity simulated the risks ofsexual activity and STI acquisitionspecifically.
So it clearly had an effect on me.
And they made it clear that I could talk to them about these important topics.
But there are other ways you’re able to explore sexual pleasure."
Certainlyresearch has shown that.
Although I was devastated in the moment, Im very grateful that we had such a meaningful conversation.
There was a lack of knowledge and understanding just about their bodies.
I did a session with them where wedrew our vulva, sort of Georgia OKeefe style.
And that was my way of teaching friends in college about their anatomy.
Some of them still have their pictures.
I think it did.
The combination of both was important and necessarily.
I spent a semester in Paris with an exchange program in high school.
They had a huge bowl ofcondomson the table in this studio apartment.
Seeing that at a young age was really impactful in my formative years.
This interview has been edited and condensed.
Lux Alptraum is a writer, sex educator, comedian, and consultant.
