Play up your favorite physical feature.

“Realizing you harbor illogical assumptions can help you move on,” Muir-Sukenick says.

Let traits you love be the core of your new beauty identity.

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Mix it up: Some days, focus on looks (“My skin is glowing today!

“); other days, on inner qualities (“I always tell the truth.").

Fix, but don’t fixate on, minor mishaps.

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“Make the mental choice not to let worries or bad thoughts run wild,” Muir-Sukenick says.

Visualize what you wantto enjoy a party or exude confidencethen make it happen.

TIP: Nix dark circles

Never obsess.

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“The most critical eyes are often our own,” Diller says.

Your bud’s bed-head, for example, doesn’t change how you feel about her.

Putting yourself in others' Manolos can keep things in perspective.

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Everyone else already has.

TIP: Revive flat hair

Maintain Your Self-esteem

Gauge your emotional temperature.

“When you’re feeling especially beautiful, think about what has contributed to it,” Muir-Sukenick says.

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If that’s you, treat yourself to the occasional facial or pedicure.

Experiment: Go wavy instead of pin-straight, or swap your usual pale gloss for a deep rose.

TIP: Play with texture

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