Kelly Clarkson
Who inspires meMy sister, Alyssa.
She’s got her hands full, but she keeps such a great positive attitude.
She is the needle and thread of our family.
My proudest accomplishmentRecutting “Because of You” with Reba.
I grew up listening to her music!
I was terrified in the studio!
The last thing I tell myself before I step onstage"Here goes nothing!"
I don’t care if I mess up.
Some nights are going to be weird, and audiences are always going to be different.
So whatever happens, happens.
I’m going to have a good time.
My most recent tattooIt says, “Love them more.”
I’m all about loving more.
My most valuable lessonCut yourself some slack.
I very much want to exceed his expectations.
[In June, Parker also welcomed twin daughters into her family.]
My most valuable lessonDo unto others…
The Golden Rule makes such an enormous difference in the way people relate to one another.
The key to confidenceBe rational.
When I push myself to look at the big picture and not become overwhelmed, I can summon confidence.
Other times, I’m at the mercy of friends and family for support.
Why I love my girlfriendsFor the trust, wisdom and loyalty we share.
My mantraI don’t have one.
But I’m open to all suggestions!
My most valuable lessonThe power of resilience.
I led a charmed life until 40, then my husband and sister both died.
My best riskMy job at CBS.
It hasn’t always been easy, but I have no regrets.
Mine worked multiple jobs to pay for our clothes.
Thinking about what she went through gives me perspective.
My biggest obstacleNot believing in my ability.
But I changed my mentality by saying to myself, I will be the fastest hurdler in the world.
And it came true.
My most valuable lessonJust because you don’t achieve something doesn’t mean it won’t happen.
It only means it won’t happen now.
We can handle things, we’re pragmatic and we’re masters at juggling!
My most valuable lessonFear is not an option.
My mother, a Holocaust survivor, taught me thatit was her gift to me.
The key to feeling beautifulConfidence!
Be yourself and you might make anything happen.
The secret to summoning that confidenceStop thinking about yourself and help someone else.
One way I do that is through Vital Voices Global Partnership, the nonprofit I founded.
[Vital Voices trains emerging women leaders and entrepreneurs in 150 countries.]
What improves with ageMany things.
You know more, you’re less agitated and you’re kinder.
What frightens me mostThat I have so much more to do before I finish.
I’m not going anywhere until we’ve eradicated this disease.
How to succeedPractice the power of oneone volunteer, one phone call, one dollar.
One person can make a difference!
In all of them, I see fragility but also limitless potential.
Each depends on us for the chance to develop her talents and to be free in life.
My best riskMaking my first English-language album in 2001.
My most valuable lessonTrust your inner voice above all else.
It won’t steer you wrong.
My proudest featStarting Joyful Heart.
It’s tough to launch a foundation for people with emotional needs, but it’s necessary.
He said that about everythingbeing a good friend, a good sport.
I always keep his advice in mind.
One group wants to create a sustainable orphanage for girls in the Democratic Republic of the Congo.
My proudest featFounding an organization that’s made it easy to do good.
Now, talking on the phone can be an act of social change.
How to succeedLearn to ask for things.
If you don’t ask, it’s possible for you to’t receive.
My best adviceBe true to your values and take them with you into your workplace.
They do important, thankless, difficult work for the good of the country and democracy.
My proudest featMy 10-year relationship with my girlfriend, Susan.
It was instant love, like getting bonked on the head by a meteorite.
We champion each other to the world.
My major roadblockI’m totally disorganized.
Thank God Susan writes the rent checks.
Why I love my jobI get to talk about whatever I want for an hour, on TV.
That’s pretty special.
My perfect eveningI’m home with Susan, me making drinks, her cooking dinner and us talking.
Me cooking would be bad!
Their land has been exploited, but they still fight to protect their children, homes and rights.
Once I’ve seen my goal, I take baby steps.
My most valuable lessonWe don’t own our kids.
[Styler has four with husband Sting.]
They’re only on loan to us, so keep living your life, as well.
The key to confidenceThere’s no room for ego when you’re fighting in someone else’s corner.
