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When youre feeling half-empty, how do you fill your cup?

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But she doesnt appear to be taking time off.

Lakshmis been hard at work writing a cookbook and promoting the latest season of her Hulu showTaste the Nation.

Im not one of those creative people who are like, I hate everybody.

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I want to go out.

I love talking to people, Lakshmi says.

But it also does drain me…and lately Ive just felt spent.

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I have no more ideas; I have nothing to say.

And the way that I combat that is just by creating literal and figurative space for myself.

For a lot of people, self-care involves candles and meditation, she says.

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That, at this point in my life, is the greatest luxury.

And thats a feeling shed like a lot more of in her life.

My goal is to keep being as much myself as I can.

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As I progress and age, thats all I want, she says.

And that confidence is gold, and thats what I aspire to.

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My other self-care go-to is a small collection of essential oils.

I get headaches from a lot of store-bought perfumesit doesnt matter whether theyre really expensive or dime-store ones.

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I love my podcasts.

I listen to one calledHidden Brainand its about neuropsychology.

Its geared toward questions like: Why are you hard on yourself?

Or, Why do we self-sabotage?

Its really serious research, peer-reviewed, backed with science, but its very conversational.

And [Vedantam] has such a soothing voice.

She had got them as a birthday gift from her dad, and I was always eyeing them.

She put them on me once and I was like, Oh my God.

But maybe five years ago, I just wasnt anymore; Im just not willing to be uncomfortable.

I remember when that happened to my mom tooshe just couldnt wear tight jeans anymore.

This dress, I would consider a very essential part of my self-care.

I can move in it, its stretchy.