I never actively hated my body; I just ignored it.

Part of me thought that if I didn’t acknowledge my weight, no one would notice.

I only started exercising and eating right after my grandma died four years ago.

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She was heavy and had health problems, and I saw so much of me in her.

So when a friend asked if I’d do a 10K race, I said yes.

We trained, but that race was tough!

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Still, a voice in my head kept saying, ‘You’re in a 10K!

In three years, I’ve lost more than 80 pounds.

Finally, I got tired of all that and decided to simply stop.

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If I got fat, I’d get fat, but it wasn’t worth the aggravation.

To distract myself, I began jogging with my dogs.

In a few months, I easily lost the pounds I’d struggled with.

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More important, my dogs helped me see that a number on the scale is meaningless.

They taught me to stop judging myself by my appearance."

If I didn’t have Jessica Alba’s abs, I couldn’t accept myself.

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I have Kellie Mears’s abs, and that’s great!

I’ve stopped tracking calories and worrying about my weight.

Now I focus on how good it feels to do what I’m doing."

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It seemed like the ideal place to rebuild my self-esteemhey, it’s a tropical paradise!

Within 24 hours of arriving, I bought a bike to get around the city.

I also started spending all my time outside and began eating healthier.

Soon, the weight was melting offI lost 26 pounds!

“I got tired of hiding!”

So I joined a weight loss program and started slimming down.

It has been four months, and I’ve lost 60 pounds.