I always thought being on crutches in New York City was the worst-case scenario.
A true nightmare realized.
The more shocking takeaway was how friends, acquaintances, and strangers alike reacted to my injuries.
The author (right) with her mom.
Nope, the surgeries were not related.
As a healthy and active 20-something woman, these surgeries were certainly setbacks.
My routine went from running at least 10 miles a week with regular yoga classes to doingnothing.
Yes, I had two surgeries in one year, but am I actually falling apart?
A little sympathy goes far when youre feeling frustrated with your diagnosis.
Yes, hip problems and replacements are issues typically associated with older people.
I get it, I understand, Im right there with you.
I personally know a handful of others my age who have undergone similar hip surgeries.
Aging someone based on an injury isnt cool.
Ignoring health-related issues and putting off treatment or surgery isnt good for you.
This statement validates my chosen course of treatment in a reassuring way.
When youre trapped in your home, contact with the outside world is important.
Seeing friends who are intent on cheering you up is imperative.
But if youre going to offer a visit, show up.
Friends located across the country called, Facetimed, DMed, you get the picture.
No sentiment is too small.
Again, I understand its good to see your injured friend doing better than you thought they would be.
I was more mobile during my recovery than anticipated, but I certainly didnt look or feel great.
I was alive and occasionally outside, but in a giant brace and was generally uncomfortable.
And while minute, the emphasis on looks isnt the best sentiment to share.
Or, Happy to see you out and about also comes off in a nice way.
These lines acknowledge that you feel good enough to leave your house.
I did think to myself several times,You had these surgeries, and now youre feeling better.
Think for a few extra seconds before you open your mouth.
Definitely dont complain about that workout class you signed up for but dont want to go to.
And when all else fails, look for kind words over quick judgements.
