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Whether youre a top, bottom, versor hoping to find outadding one (or two!)
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of the best strap-ons to your toy collection will make exploring in the bedroom all the more enjoyable.
Using a strap-on is a hot way totry anal playand switch up power dynamics.
And straps are, of course, a regular part of sex for many queer people.
You also have the option to switch in a regular dildo or use the vibrator on its own.
The app even lets you synchronize the Lapis with music on your phone.
So if you dont already have a groovysex playlistready to go, this is your sign to make one.
But when the mood strikes, they have a sewn-in O-ring thats strong enough to support a dildo.
Also worth noting: The back panels can shift to accommodate double-ended dildos.
Plus, there are two pouches that can fit bullet vibesand the whole thing is machine-washable.
Each end is controlled separately and offers rumbly (not buzzy) vibrations for a more intense experience.
Its also anal-safejust be sure to lather up withlots of lubebefore you get going.
There are also two separate pockets for bullets.
you could turn both or just one of the insertable toys into a vibrator with ease, she adds.
The wearer just has to adjust their harness so that their vulva and the Bumpher line-up.
Made from squishy silicone, this accessory helps protect the pubic bone of the harness-wearer during play.
(you might also put a bullet vibe inside to turn it into a contoured vibrator.)
Honeybunch Silicone Base
SheVibes
This dildo base introduces all the pleasure ofgrinding sex toysinto strap-on play.
), but few include one with your purchase.
Thats where this budget-friendly vibe comes in.
Luckily, for those with a dildo that’s longer than they can comfortably receive, theres the Ohnut.
It can effectively attach dildos that are up to three pounds.
Pro tip: Wetting the foam will make it easier to slide over larger dildos.
ensure your dildo is made from medical-grade silicone that can be easily sanitized, Dr. Queen says.
Harness style
Youll also need to choose between a jockstrap and an underwear-style harness.
They tend to be the most adjustable, making it easier to find the right fit.
There are also harnesses that fitchins,thighs, andhands.
Some are fashioned likesuspendersorcorsets, and there are evenstrapless strap-ons(which dont need a harness at all).
O-rings
The O-ring is the rubber or metal piece that secures the dildo in the harness.
Others have a built-in elastic O-ring that can stretch to accommodate most sizes.
We also prioritized harnesses that can be adjusted to fit a variety of body shapes.
Frequently asked questions
How do strapless strap-ons work?
How do I care for my strap-on?
After washing, let them air dry completely before storing.
Leather harnesses can become deformed if you saturate them with waterthey need special care.
