The truth, of course, is more complex.
Lots of folks genuinely enjoy meeting and hanging out with other people…until they dont.
For people like me, deciding whether or not to participate in grouptravelisnt easy.
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On the one hand, of course I want to experience new places with people I generally like.
On the other hand, wow, people can become really annoying really fast.
Destinationweddings, family reunions, bachelorette parties, and professional conferences come to mind.
Second, I have some information that might help.
Fingers crossed these tips will make group travel a little more bearable for us all.
First, figure out exactly what you dont like about group trips.
For instance, maybe it all comes down to you being a tried-and-true introvert.
There are so many other reasons why you might not be group travels biggest fan.
Whatever might be going on, have a go at figure it out.
Prepare, prepare, prepare.
Dont wait to brainstorm how to tackle what sets you off about group travel.
Preparation in this context is all about trying to address your specific group travel concerns.
To that end, preemptive footwork can go a long way, pun fully intended.
If you think your shyness is actually social anxiety, help is out there.
(The horror.)
you’re free to also pack with solitude in mind.
These can function as pretty universal Do not disturb signals.
Barrera also suggests bringing a journal if scribbling down your thoughts is restorative to you.
Just dont, you know, forget to actually take any of these necessary tools along with you.
That might mean that before the next trip, you should be the one to spearhead creating an itinerary.
Balance socializing and solitude.
Achieving this balance on a group trip can be difficult.
Even duringsolo travel, theres often pressure to seize every possible opportunity.
This can become even more challenging when youre negotiating between your own desires and those of a group.
Because of that, its really important to check in with how youre feeling throughout the trip.
Are you excited, happy, and energized?
If youre experiencing physical and emotional cues that you need a break, prioritize your personal needs.
The way you phrase it depends on your personality and the situation in question.
You might say to your friends, Remember the Great Eurotrip Meltdown of 2011?
You know I turn into a monster when I dont have my alone time.
See you at dinner, byeee.
Chances are itll make the experience a lot better for all of you.
Some just need more than others.
