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Whatever you call these devices, theyre the unsung heroes of many a sexual escapade.
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Learning this might inspire a very valid question: Why the hell would someone want that?!?!
Well, this restriction can feel highly pleasurable for some people.
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Start with a simple cock ring made of something stretchy like silicone.
TheCock Ties from Doc Johnsonare solid cock rings.
Somecock ringscome with pretty fun bonuses for both the wearer and partners sexual experience.
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Before putting on a cock ring, spread a few drops of lube around the inner part.
This will help it slide down a penis or dildo more easily.
It can corrode the toy and cause damage.
Choosing a water-based lube makes things easier all around.
Sutil Rich Body Glide
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Sliquid H2O Original Water-Based Lubricant
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Place the ring on a flaccid or semi-erect penis.
Otherwise, dont take a stab at pop a cock ring on an erect penis.
Even with lube, that might be too uncomfortable and difficult, depending on how tight the ring is.
You may have to experiment a bit to figure out what works best for better sex.
We recommend that beginners stick with the base of the penis versus base of the shaft.
(We still encourage condom use when necessary no matter which cock ring placement youre into!)
Either way, it might be easier for the person wearing the ring to do this part themselves.
Ultimately, the ring should feel pleasantly tight without feeling uncomfortable.
This is not the time for them to take one for the team.
Dont leave a cock ring on a penis for too long.
The general industry recommendation is to keep a cock ring on for no more than 20 to 30 minutes.
When removing a cock ring, again, gentleness is key.
you might even apply more lube if necessary to help it slide off more easily.
When testing out cock rings, the most important thing of all is to enjoy yourself!
Just kidding, its safety, although enjoying yourself is a very close second.
