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When it comes to connecting with the partner welove, we alltryto communicate well in ourrelationship.
We know thatgood communicationis essential to maintaininga happy, strong relationship or marriage.
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We also understand thatkeeping things positivereduces the amount of conflictcouplesexperience.
But wanting to communicate well and actually doing so are two different things.
What makes communication “meaningful”?
“How are you doing today?”
Not, “what” are you doing, but “how” are you doing?
Take time to ask this question and look your partner directly in the eyes while asking.
“Is there anything I can do to help you?”
You see that your spouse is busy, hurried, or experiencing some frustration with getting everything done.
Ask this question and be ready to take action on any request they have for help.
“What’s important to you?”
When you know your partner is trying to make an important decision, ask them this question.
Another way to ask it is, “What do you really want?”
Asking it invites them to think through and talk about what they value most.
“What would you like to do?”
“How can Iencourage you?”
“What goals would you like to set for us, and for yourself?”
You should ask and seriously discuss this question every few months.
“Are you happy with where our relationship is going?”
This is an important question that every couple should discussat leastannually.
“What is your biggest fear?”
This not a question that you often think to ask, but it’s important to know their answer.
“What makes you feel the happiest?”
Life is not always fun.
Get involved in the things that bringhappinessto each of you.
“What do you want out of our life together?”
This question can involve short-term and long-term goals, objectives, and desires.
Take the time to know what those are for your partner and give their goals the attention they deserve.
Originally written by David McFadden,YourTango
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