Here’s Exactly How to Treat Dry Eyelids, According to Dermatologists

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Back in college, I woke up one winter morning with dry eyelids for the first time. Reinhard Krull / EyeEm The flaking made all myeye makeuplook cracked and messy, so I stopped wearing it. Eventually, I developed tiny, bleeding cracks in my eyelid creases, which were sensitive and painful....

January 24, 2020 · 2 min · 330 words · April Riley

Infertility Rates Are Higher Among Black Women—So Why Do We Feel So Alone?

The beginning of ourfertility journeywas unremarkable in the best way. The months leading up to our start date were full of excitement. We collected nursery room images for our Pinterest board and talked about baby names. Adobe/New Africa - stock.adobe.com Ever the Enneagram punch in 3, I meticulously followed the advice Id heard. On the recommendation of a friend, I downloaded an app to track myperiodand ovulation. I began taking aprenatal vitaminin October and went off birth control in December....

January 24, 2020 · 3 min · 610 words · Jamie Stevens

‘Whelming’ Is the New Online Dating Habit That's Making Me Want to Throw Away My Phone

What isonline datingwithout the cacophony of terms used to describe the experience? If this all sounds like a terrible way to bewooed, hold on to your smartphones, friends. Its mildly irritating at best. MirageC/Getty Images (For same-sex matches,either person can start the conversation.) The first time this happened, I asked follow-up questions: How frequently are you swiping? Did you know you could control the flow of matches by, uh, swiping right less?...

January 24, 2020 · 2 min · 349 words · Jordan Nielsen

15 Truly Great Kitchen Deals We Spotted at the Sur La Table Spring Sale

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Here, weve rounded up some of the best items on markdown that piqued our interest. Images courtesy of Sur La Table Instant Pot 6 Qt. Plus, their stainless-steel base helps prevent warping while theyre resting on your stove or in your oven. Bonus: This set is a whopping 50% off right now....

January 23, 2020 · 1 min · 107 words · Henry Mckinney

8 Signs You Should See a Doctor About Stomach Pain

For starters,stomach painis a pretty broad description. Are we talking a mild yet persistent twinge or a cramps-that-hurt-so-badly-youre-on-the-floor kind of situation? These seemingly little nuances all matter when it comes to narrowing down what could be behind your stomach pain. Getty Images/ MirageC Nothing beats an evaluation from an expert. The pain is pretty intense and accompanied by bloody diarrhea. Unfortunately for you (and your toilet), this could be one of a few things....

January 22, 2020 · 3 min · 528 words · John Nichols

So You Popped a Pimple. Here’s How to Deal With the Aftermath

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Pimplesare often the first skin-care issue we come up against. Getty/PeopleImages And figuring out what to do with apoppedpimple is often the second. And that scarring will end up lasting much, much longer than any pimple would. I tell my patients, Take your mirrors down....

January 22, 2020 · 2 min · 418 words · Meredith Gallagher

I Quit My Job Because of Burnout

I realized that I had to quit my job. On Instagram, I traveled, ran, and partied. Two years earlier, during the summer of 2017, I was riding the subway and my brain crashed. Streichholzer Konzept burn-out / Getty Images I was rushed to the E.R., then returned to work days after. Three weeks later, I seized again and smacked my head on a coffee table. Perhaps the concussion and black eye should have been a wake-up call to slow down....

January 21, 2020 · 4 min · 782 words · Rhonda Giles

5 Reasons You Get a Headache After Your Workout—And How to Stop It

Especially when times are stressfulhello, last few weeksexercise can help you feel better physically and mentally. And if youve ever experienced one, at least youre not alone. What is a workout headache? Amber Venerable Exercise headachesthe aching-but-not-migraineheadaches that are brought on by your workoutsare known asprimary exertional headaches. An increase in heart rate can cause a headache after exercise. There are lots of unknowns with headaches, and exercise headaches are no different....

January 17, 2020 · 2 min · 384 words · Sandra Sparks

How I Went From Group Fitness Classes to Competitive Powerlifting

Before I joined a powerlifting gym, I thought I knew what it felt like to lift heavy weights. After all, Im an avid exerciser. During that first class, we practiced deadlifts. stevecoleimages (Do not do this at home, by the way. Never lift more than what it’s possible for you to with proper form!) In fact, it was so heavy that I really had nothing to compare it to. I attempted to drive my body upwards....

January 17, 2020 · 2 min · 394 words · Angela Vega

9 Small Morning Habits That Will Make Your Whole Day So Much Better

A solid morning routine has long been the backbone of my self-care practice. You dont have to take my word for it, though. Therapists will be quick to tell you the mental health benefits of starting your day this way. Adobe Stock / Pixel-Shot As soon as you wake up, every decision you make dips into your brains willpower reserves. Of course, these willpower-depleting decisions are unavoidable; our lives are full of them....

January 16, 2020 · 3 min · 452 words · Cameron Hudson

The 12 Best Acne Spot Treatments Dermatologists Swear By for Pesky Breakouts

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. So what, exactly, is an acne spot treatment? It typically takes about a month to see results from these types of acne treatments. Common spot-treatment ingredients includebenzoyl peroxide (BP), which targetsP. I think [retinoids are some] of the best spot treatments, Dr. Howe says....

January 16, 2020 · 2 min · 324 words · Terry Johnson

The Most Natural-Looking Nude Lipsticks, According to Women of Color

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. This lipsticks matte finish and 3D pigments make your lips look naturally fuller and plumper. Images courtesy of Sephora, Mented Cosmetics, MAC, and Nordstrom It also lasts a really long time and helps keep my lips hydrated. The color is not exactly a traditional nude, but has a warm, rosy tone....

January 16, 2020 · 2 min · 340 words · Kevin Clark

4 Morning Stretches That Will Wake Up Your Tired Muscles

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. The biggest one for me? Katie Thompson Morning exercisers claim that getting their blood pumping first thing energizes them for the rest of the day. Getting up and moving doesnt always have to mean doing a hard workout. It can simply mean stretching and getting your blood flowing in whatever way feels good to you....

January 15, 2020 · 2 min · 249 words · Sandra Holmes