One woman discovers the secret to loving her life

“How long has it been since your last relationship?” That’s the question I dreaded most when I was dating. Or I’d fudge (OK, lie). Once, I told a man “about three years” when the actual figure was closer to six. He didn’t miss a beat, asking, “What’s wrong with you?” To be fair, I don’t think he was being deliberately rude. In all other ways, I was a well-functioning adult....

May 27, 2009 · 3 min · 574 words · Leah Riggs

Balance Your Way to a Flatter Belly

Slowly return to start. Do 12 reps. Switch legs; repeat. Slowly return to start. COPYRIGHT ©2009 THE CONDÉ NAST PUBLICATIONS. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Do 12 reps. Switch sides; repeat. Hold pose as long as you could; work up to 60 seconds. Lower to knees; repeat twice. Shaky squat Stand on pods with feet hip-width apart, knees soft, arms down. Engage abs and hold pose. If it’s possible for you to, slowly extend arms overhead (as shown), then lower....

May 20, 2009 · 1 min · 124 words · Nicole Frazier

2009 Healthy Beauty Awards

We also created icons (below) to help you spot bargains and luxe picks. Take this list on your next shopping trip and any beauty-buying confusion will be history. Whatever your skin bang out, these champs will help you achieve complexion perfection. The gellike formula uses algae and sea minerals to reveal more radiance. “It’s like a 10-minute eye lift,” one cheered. “A tiny drop is all you need.” A convert said, “I woke up, and my face felt like satin....

May 15, 2009 · 5 min · 861 words · Thomas Parker

Get a wow booty now!

Squat low; raise heels. Return to start for one rep. Do eight reps. Switch sides; repeat. Contract abs to lift bent legs to form a 45-degree angle with torso, toes pointed. Raise arms overhead, palms in, for starting position. Lift knees to balance on hands and toes, shins just off ground. Stretch arms straight overhead while tilting chin to sky. Twist back up to arms-overhead position for one rep. Do eight reps....

May 15, 2009 · 1 min · 191 words · Lawrence Cooley

H is for horsetail

(VisitFindAComposter.comto locate one near you.) Those created with petroleum languish in landfills for decades. Add up your CO2 impact atFightGlobalWarming.com. Clean clothes with Borba Fabric Fusion 2-in-1 Eco-Laundry Wash, with coconut acid. Scan bottles for items in our index, but be aware that some synthetic-sounding names are actually natural. Try Aura Cacia Jasmine Absolute Oil. Ketchup Everyone’s favorite condiment is good for hair. Coat dry strands with a cup and a half for 10 minutes, then shampoo....

May 15, 2009 · 2 min · 291 words · Austin Shaffer

Seasonal superstars

Spinach This green puts the eye in Popeye: It delivers sight-saving vitamin A. Before cooking, swirl leaves in cold water to dislodge dirt. Rhubarb This potassium source pairs well with pork. Boil 2 chopped stalks in 1/2 cup water and 1/4 cup sugar until soft; serve on chops. Beets Betanine lends beets a red hue and may fight lung cancer. For chips, coat slices in olive oil and salt; roast for an hour at 350....

May 15, 2009 · 1 min · 196 words · Jill Murphy

Women's Worst Health Habits Revealed (and how to rid yourself of them!)

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. I don’t even have a doctor! In search of an M.D.? Get a reference from a pal. I am always in 3- to 5-inch heels. Pick shoes with 2-inch heels, max, and a wide toe box; commute in supportive flats. (We love Ugg Skimmers;UggAustralia.com.)...

May 15, 2009 · 2 min · 221 words · Christopher Salinas

Get sexier, healthier hair!

The mane goal"My haircolor is the one thing I’m vainabout," Ryan Gregory says. “Among friends, I’ve always been the blondeone.” The peroxide-free formula gradually washes out with shampoo, so her dark blonde base will grow in undetected. “Iwas sure chemicals in the dyes would harm my hair,” she says. “Plus, Icouldn’t just wipe it off like a new lipstick.” The mane goal"I’m up for anything!" beamed Isaac, who changed her leave-it-alone tune once in Warren’s hands....

April 18, 2009 · 1 min · 174 words · Kelly Carter

Is the economy making you fat?

Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac have a co-conspirator in the war on your well-being: Duncan Hines. During stressful times, overeating is practically our national therapy. Read on for their winning strategies. Food Stylist: Jee Levine And although she kept her job, she inherited the workof her laid-off colleagues. Plan for pasta.Stern craves carbs at night because they liftserotonin levelswhich makes her feel relaxed, Bauer says. Stern can also fill her fridge with portion-controlledversions of her favorite snacks....

April 18, 2009 · 2 min · 340 words · Todd Coleman

When fertility treatments become frightening

Her joy turned to shock, then panic. How could she possibly carry, let alone care for, six babies? Sheburst into tears as her husband, Michael, in disbelief, counted theembryos once again. “One more seemed fine. We were excited.” As she lay down on the table, she joked with the technician. “I’mhaving triplets!” “Just don’t tell me I’m having any more!” “All I couldthink was that I couldn’t do that to my daughter,” Kristina recalls....

April 18, 2009 · 6 min · 1135 words · Scott King

Diet regrets

I’ve fought it, given in to it,cursed it and adored it. Rarely has it been my friend. Only recentlyhave I made peace with it. Iced cup cake decorated with rose buds, close-up We’ll have to wait andsee. I took from my own bag my container of orange juice. I wasn’t like the rest of the kids. At 5, I was ignorant of cholesterol and calories, but I knew aboutfat. My uncle was fat, and people were always telling him to eat celeryinstead of cookies....

March 18, 2009 · 4 min · 719 words · Emily Weber

Green goddess

A few easy tweaks can make a world of difference to your looks and to the planet. Face:Wash wisely. Single-use synthetic cleansing pads may be handy, but they also clog landfills. Consider removing makeup with a washcloth made from organic fibers such as bamboo. Body:Save H20. Could the runoff from your showers fill a swimming pool? Conserve water by exfoliating before you get under the spray. Post-shower, pat damp skin with an organic oil such as almond or avocado to lock in moisture....

March 18, 2009 · 2 min · 401 words · Candace Smith

Secrets of the fittest

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. To achieve thefirm midsection you’ve always wanted, become a blowhard. “I feel my stomachmuscles contract more intensely, and I stay more focused.” 2. Set it and forget it Watch the clock goticktock and a 20-minute treadmill jog can feel like the BostonMarathon. (It’s only been five minutes?...

March 18, 2009 · 3 min · 490 words · Donna Freeman