When a friend disappears

This had nothing to do with Holly. “How about we make an agreement?” But I was too busy talking and laughing as we unpacked our things. By the conference’s end, I knew her better than I did most of my longtime friends. “We’re kindred spirits!” we marveled, though on the surface we were opposites. She was mother to a teenager; I was childless. But in all the ways that mattered, we were the same....

June 25, 2007 · 4 min · 646 words · Kimberly Lambert

Yoga positions: Natural relief for PMS

Seated Twist Sit with legs extended. Cross left leg over right, left foot flat next to right knee. Bring right heel near left hip. Put left hand on floor by left hip. Inhale, wrap right arm around left knee and twist torso to left (as shown). Hold for 10 to 15 deep breaths. Switch sides; repeat. Wind Pose Lie faceup. Bring knees to chest, reaching arms around shins; clasp hands (as shown)....

June 25, 2007 · 3 min · 430 words · Zachary Cooper

Could your doctor deny you health care?

Her mind was reeling. Instead, he had thrown her onto his bed and assaulted her. “I’m done with you,” he’d tonelessly told her afterward. Boyer had grabbed her clothes and dashed for her car in the freezing predawn darkness. Bruised and in pain, she grimaced through the pelvic exam. “I’ll need the morning-after pill,” she told him. Dr. Gish looked up. He was a trim, middle-aged man with graying hair and, Boyer thought, an aloof manner....

May 21, 2007 · 6 min · 1274 words · Lisa Swanson

Global warming is making you sick

Global warming is already terrifying. Yet most people (SELF readers included) fear more for their future great-grandkids than for their own health. Only 17 percent of you believe climate change is affecting us today. But the bone-chilling truth is that global warming isn’t simplythreateningto hurt your bodyit already is. The following list of nine health dangers is guaranteed to change your mind. “When you exercise, you take in more air deeper into the lungs,” he explains....

May 21, 2007 · 3 min · 586 words · Julie Porter

Martial arts workout: Fight fat and win

Kick right leg back as you punch right arm forward. Do 10 reps. Switch legs. Repeat for one set. Do 10 reps. Switch legs; repeat for one set. Bend torso over left thigh, right elbow up in front (as shown). In one fluid motion, shift weight to right hand and leg, bending right knee into a squat. Sweep left leg in front of you 180 degrees, pivoting on right foot to face opposite direction....

May 21, 2007 · 2 min · 220 words · Ronald Moon

Skin cancer survivors share healthy habits

So what if you skimp a little on sunscreen, right? That’s exactly what Valerie Carvajal wrongly believed all of her life. Scary as it sounds, women like Carvajal are not an anomaly. Last year, SELF ran a story that detailed one woman’s skin-cancer scare. All were diagnosed with skin cancer before age 30. They learned their lesson the hard way. Let them prevent you from making their mistakes. In college, I was a lifeguard....

May 21, 2007 · 3 min · 544 words · Eric Hensley

The top 3 cellulite treatments

People say that dimples come from being kissed by an angel. Dimples on yourothercheeks, and thighs, however, are a more devilish sort. And there’s no cure. So far in the battle against cellulite, nothing works permanently or 100 percent or for every person. Only treatments that temporarily reduce theappearanceof cellulite are available. But if you’re active and need to do something (anything!) But Klaudia Baucom, 47, of Tustin, California, was pleased after her treatments14 over seven weeks....

April 23, 2007 · 2 min · 397 words · Abigail Dixon

2007 Healthy Beauty Awards: All winners

Best Normal-Skin CleanserPlank Cor Soap, $125 Best Oily-Skin CleanserCare by Stella McCartney Purifying Foaming Cleanser, $35 Best Dry-Skin CleanserNIA 24 Gentle Cleansing Cream, $30 Best Sensitive-Skin CleanserSkin Effects Redness Control Calming Gel Cleanser, $13 Best Normal-Skin MoisturizerSkingenic Regenerating Moisturizer, $110 Best Dry-Skin MoisturizerLierac Hydra-Chrono, $45 Best Sensitive-Skin MoisturizerKinerase Cream With SPF 30, $135 Best Antiaging MoisturizerLancome High Resolution With Fibrelastine Intensive Recovery Anti-Wrinkle Cream, $74 Best Night CreamRoc Protient Fortify Lift and Define Night Cream, $20...

April 22, 2007 · 4 min · 748 words · James Estrada

Ball exercises: Tone every trouble zone

Lift left foot and shift weight to right leg. Do 12 reps. Switch sides; repeat. Step left foot back and to right as you lower arms to right side (as shown). Switch sides; repeat. Squeeze ball as you raise legs about 12 inches off ground (as shown). Slowly return to start. Do 12 reps. Switch sides; repeat. Lower upper body; repeat. Squeeze ball with both hands and extend arms overhead....

April 22, 2007 · 1 min · 143 words · Brenda Burnett

Get your sexiest hairstyle ever!

Long, sideswept bangs and an imperfect, tousled texture keep this cropped style from seeming boyish. Wash with protein shampoo and conditioner. On damp hair, vigorously massage in volumizer; spraying hair at the roots gives you lift. Blow-dry hair upside down while tousling. Blow-dry strands and style them forward. (Choose a slim model to help you avoid a burn.) Finish with shine pomade. Then gently ruffle hair back and forth with fingers and palms, starting in back and moving forward....

April 22, 2007 · 3 min · 460 words · Nicole Coleman

Healthy hair from A to Z

Battling curls by going stick straight, last year’s hot trend, can be hard on hair. Plus, it turns out that thereissuch a thing as too-straight hair. (Hey, trends come and go.) Women of all hair types can slow damage by spacing chemical treatments at least six weeks apart. Allow two weeks between using relaxer and haircolor. It has silicone (aka cy-clomethicone or dimethicone), which helps strands slip apart. To avoid stripping natural oils, that’s the most often you should shampoo....

April 22, 2007 · 3 min · 496 words · Lindsay Mendoza

It's a wash

SHAMPOO SMARTERA lazy wash can leave residue on strands and your style flat. Try this system for maximum shine. Rub shampoobetween palms and massage at your nape. Spend time around your temples and hairline, often-oily areas that people skip or speed over. An effective degreaser: Biotherm Intensely Purifying Shampoo. Concentrate on roots,where hair is oiliest, but don’t ignore the ends. This oldest, most porous part of your hair attracts the most dirt and product buildup....

April 22, 2007 · 3 min · 485 words · Thomas Fitzgerald

Look prettier than ever

Overgrown, dry cuticles make even the nicest nails look ragged. But trimming can cause hangnails. A better solution: 1. Soak fingersin warm water, then push back cuticles with a towel or a cotton-ball-topped orange stick. Apply cuticle removerto exfoliate excess skin (the protective layer stays intact). The one by Lippmann Collection, is moisturizing. Massage in oilto hydrate cuticles (dry ones split easily). Sephora Cuticle Care Pen is a no-drip pick....

April 22, 2007 · 4 min · 711 words · Brandy Willis