The Grown-Ass Man’s Guide to Making and Keeping Friends

When it comes to making andmaintaining friendships, the dominant cultural narrative is that women have it easy. In some ways, these pop culture depictions ring true for a lot of men. The friendships that seemed so easy to make in childhood dont always carry through into adulthood. Jordan Moss To be fair, pandemic life has hiteveryones friendshipspretty hard. Ill often ask, What is your support system like? Single or not, friendships offer so manybenefitsthat can improve mens lives....

May 16, 2023 · 3 min · 532 words · Janice Dalton

How to Tell If You’re Using Substances to Numb Your Feelings

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. I know its anunhealthy habitand I venture to avoid it. Jordan Moss But its an easy pattern to fall into and a common issue for folks who struggle with theirmental health. Below, Dr. Lembke and Dr. ## First, its crucial to remember theres more than one way to self-medicate....

May 15, 2023 · 3 min · 584 words · Dawn Marks

12 Realistic Tips for Managing Mom Guilt, From Mothers Who Get It

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Working full-time (or more), but also being fully present for your kids. Antonio Rodriguez/Adobe Stock If youre amom raising children of color, keeping your kids safe in a racist world. Oh, and dont forget toprioritize self-carein the zero hours you have left in the day!...

May 12, 2023 · 3 min · 483 words · Dennis Sanders

4 People With Bipolar I Share How the Right Treatment Helped Them Thrive

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Being diagnosed withbipolar disordercan set off a flurry of conflicting feelings. Jocelyn Tsaih Maybe youre relieved theres an explanation for the sudden mood fluctuations youve experienced. You may also worry about what the diagnosis means or how others will react to it. Maybe youre wondering, What will my friends and family think?...

May 11, 2023 · 4 min · 642 words · Kyle Taylor DDS

All the Best Memorial Day Mattress Sales to Shop Right Now

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. These beds have gone through our testing process and were deemed the best of the best. Courtesy of brand/Wesley Hall Check them out belowfrom Amazons already-affordable options to premiumbed-in-a-boxoptions from Nectar, Casper, and more. The Premier Hybrid impressed SELFs associate wellness director with its plush yet responsive feel....

May 11, 2023 · 1 min · 212 words · Samantha Hickman

Peloton Just Recalled More Than 2 Million Bikes Due to ‘Fall and Injury’ Risk

As one of the at-home fitness darlings of the pandemic,Pelotonhas sincestruggledas people started heading back to their gyms. Now, the company is dealing with another setback: On May 11, Pelotonannounceda voluntary recall of its flagship product, the original Bike model. According to a statement on Pelotons website, the voluntary recall is occurring because the bikes seatpostwhich adjusts up and down to accommodate people of different heightscan break during a ride, potentially leading to fall and injury risk....

May 11, 2023 · 3 min · 463 words · Karen Vang

How to Cope With ‘Anticipatory Grief’ When a Loved One Is Dying

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Theres no roadmap fornavigating griefwhen you lose someone you care about. Jorm Sangsorn/Adobe Stock Its a deeply painful and complicated process that we all handle in our own ways. We caneven mourn the loss ofcelebrities we didnt personally know. Grieving doesnt always startaftersomeone dies, though....

May 10, 2023 · 3 min · 437 words · Amber Flores

How to Work Out at Work Without Messing Up Your Entire Day

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. So what does this mean for your weekday workouts? FangXiaNuo / Getty Images Theres solid reason to do so too. Dicey, but not impossible. First, decide when youll work out during the day. Otherwise, you may want to talk to your manager first about blocking off time....

May 10, 2023 · 2 min · 387 words · Carlos Weeks

The Path to Gender Equality Starts...With Dishes

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Youve been, Im assuming, to parties before. serggn/Getty Images After a few hours, the place is a mess. If youre a guy, you probably dont spend too much time thinking about that. If youve ever really paid attention to this, its a jarring split....

May 9, 2023 · 2 min · 322 words · Brittany Kelley

What’s the Difference Between Probiotics and Prebiotics?

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Gut health is certainly having its moment in the wellness sphere. Linda/Adobe Stock But they dont work alone, and thats where prebioticsa term often confused with probioticscome in. Like flowers in a garden, probiotics need to be fertilized to grow and survive. While probiotics and prebiotics work together, there are some important differences in how they may affect your body....

May 9, 2023 · 2 min · 383 words · Dwayne Brown

15 Fruity Mocktail Recipes for Non-Drinkers Who Still Want to Feel Fancy

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Like their cocktail counterparts, mocktailsa.k.a. Ryzhkov/Getty Images That means giving mocktails the same care in presentation that you would give to cocktails. (There is always a way to provide something so that everyone gets to feel fancy, Reiner says. More on that below!) How do you avoid making overly sweet mocktails?...

May 8, 2023 · 3 min · 439 words · Jessica Mitchell

Our Place Sale 2023: 11 Deals on Cookware, Glasses, and More

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. The Our Place Spring Sale is one you definitely dont want to miss. Courtesy of From Our Place Like everything else, all good things must end, and this sale will only run throughMay 21. This colorful tumbler set comes in a group of four and is made from recycled glass and sand....

May 5, 2023 · 1 min · 96 words · Monica Mccarthy

The ‘Thin Is In’ Narrative Is Especially Harmful to People of Color

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. The term heroin chic entered my vocabulary in the early 90s. Luis Alvarez / Getty Images. My grandparents, Mexican immigrants, were raising me in the Bay Area, just outside of San Francisco. And oh, man, I wanted to be a real American with athird-culturezeal that felt almost epigenetic....

May 5, 2023 · 3 min · 441 words · Nichole Flores