Make this change to your sex life and reap the orgasm-producing benefits, saysYourTango.
Bypassing foreplay in favor of having a quickie can be great for both your sex life and your relationship.
Sometimes squeezing in some sex against a wall is just what the doctor ordered.
Really, it doesn’t matter what the reason is.
Quickies are simply amazing.
Need some convincing to occasionally skip the extended foreplay?
Here are the top three reasons why you should incorporate quickies into your sexual repertoire more often.
The lack of foreplay can actually be the foreplay.
You feel so fortunate.
And at the end, you’re completely full and satisfied.
You don’t even get cutlery or a plate.
Just use your hands and cram it all in there.
The first scenario is what an all-evening,extended sex datefeels like.
You and your partner both get to take your time and truly savor the experience.
You’ll be left sweaty and messy, thinking, “That was amazing.
I’m so glad I just dove right in there.”
That is the nature of the quickie.
Little to no manners.
Just asexual pleasure free for all.
(This actually might be my favorite metaphor I’ve come up with to date.)
It’s that much easier to be selfish.
Neither side is wrong, right, or better than the other.
They are two halves of the same whole.
Most people tend to have a deeper and easier relationship with their light side.
So, what does this mean and why is it relevant?
That’s where quickies come in.
They’re one of the best ways to get real, raw, and honest about your sexual needs.
Grab that body part of theirs that youloveso much.
Touch yourself where you need it to climax as quickly as possible.
Put your lips all over them and be greedy about it.
Because really, being selfish can be great and healthy sometimes!
Quickies reconnect you with your raw desire for your partner.
In reality, there can be something extremelysexyabout “objectifying” your long-term partner.
This is one thing that I picked up during my years of being in theBDSM/play party scene.
And that’s beautiful.
So give quickies a shot, especially if it’s been a while since your last one.
Jordan Gray
Sexandrelationship coachJordan Gray helps people remove their emotional blocks and maintain thriving intimaterelationships.
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