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What makes a sex position worthy of being deemed one of the absolutebestsex positions is really subjective.
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We all have differentsexual fantasies, desires, and preferences, after all.
It also depends on what you want out of sex.
Read on for the positions the experts suggest, plus some pro tips for making them even more stimulating.
Spooning
Spooning is a fan favorite of many in the bedroom, and its no wonder why.
The full-body contact creates a deep yet exciting connection.
She notes that its a great position for couples of all sexual orientations and gender identities.
Unlike many of the other positions on this list, spooning does not allow for direct eye contact.
However, the full-body skin-on-skin contact creates an undeniable, all-over physical closenesswith some room to play.
This position can be as intense or intimate as you like, which opens the door for creativity.
Missionary
Its a classic for a reason.
Speaking of which, missionary makes kissing and touching a whole lot easier, Dr. Vrangalova points out.
And there are lots of opportunities for skin-to-skin contact.
It’s super intimate.
Meanwhile, White notes that this is a position that can really centerpleasure for people with a vagina.
If youre looking to upgrade this position forhelp in climaxing, White recommends overlapping one anothers legs.
You’ll both benefit from the eye contact, as well as the myriad opportunities forkissingthis position presents.
Start by lying flat on your stomach.
(So, nix the arguably not-super-romantic all-fours setup.)
Again, doing it in front of a mirror can make it even hotter and more intimate.
With both partners face to face, this romantic position is a great way for intimate eye contact.
It hits all the right spotsin all kinds of ways.
Butterfly
For penis-and-vagina sex, White recommends the Kama Sutra sex position known as butterfly.
While it does require core strength, this position makes it easy to access andstimulate the G-spot.
Starfish
Another one of the best sex positions for skin-on-skin contact is the starfish.
The other person lies on top, matching limb-to-limb.
The goal: to feel like you’re touching every inch of each other.
And in a way, its really as intimate as two people can get.
No matter what youre into, its all about understanding what you and your partner enjoy.
(Check out these greatfemale masturbationtips, too).
Always communicate with your partner toshare what feels goodand what doesnt.
You might find a new position or practice that you both love.
You really can never have too many sex positions on your best-of list.
