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How do I choose the right vibrator?
Shopping for a vibe is easy, when you know what to look for.
If youre into clitoral stimulation, try an external vibrator like a bullet or wand vibe.
More into G-spot stimulation?
Go with an internal option.
And if you like both, a rabbit or dual-stimulation vibe could be your perfect match.
Ask yourself: When Ireceive oral sex, what feels better?
A wide, flat tongue against my whole vulva, or a tongue tracing my clitoris or labia?
When getting fingered, do I prefer shallow or deep penetration?
Usually, larger vibes have larger motors that feel more rumbly, she adds.
Solo or partnered play
Most vibrators are as versatile as your imagination allows.
(The one caveat: A vibe can only be used anally if it has a flared base.)
That said, its wise to think about how you want to use your new toy.
This offers a degree of agency and efficacy (confidence!
), which helps the entire mood of the sexual experience, she says.
Porous materials, like PVC and elastomer, hold onto bacteria and can never be fully cleaned.
It has seven vibration patterns, eight powerful intensities, and a simple, waterproof design.
Whether youre using it solo or with a partner, its sure to be a hit.
different prefs and some flexibility to it, which you may find more comfortable.
I usually cant use wand vibrators for more than a few minutes before their weight fatigues my arm.
Plus, its rechargeable, so theres no need to stay close to an outlet while you play.
This compact wand massager fits in the palm of your hand and has a flexible neck.
But some are designed with a few extra features that make them our very favorites.
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For added fun, she recommends using some of the brands aloe- and water-basedlubewith it.
The silky silicone coating feels luxurious, especially when paired witha water-based lube.
Its the perfect blend of a gorgeous statement piece and an incredible external vibrator, says Finn.
(Get creative!)
It uses contact-free, pressure-wave suction and pulsation to recreate the sensations of oral sex.
G-spot play is also one of the top ways that folks experiencesquirting.
Its a sound investment for people with sensitive bits like me, as well as the power-hungry.
Another bonus: It comes with super clear instructions to help you get going.
While its marketed as a G-spot vibrator, it can be used externally too.
The strong motor makes it great for external stimulation too.
It’s super smooth and easy to insert.
Each time I use the Snail Vibe, I have fun.
One side has a slight ridge, to give your clit a little extra love.
It also has a solid range of controls and vibration patterns.
Designed to be straddled or humped, theyll hit all your (external) hot spots at once.
It has a super tapered tip for easy entry (when paired withthe right anal lube).
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