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Not anymore, says JoJo Sikuade, editor of party blogSwanSoSweet.

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She recommends sitting down with your friend and finding out how she wants to celebrate.

Is she uncomfortable with attention or is she dying to dance on the bar?

Is a spa weekend, a fancy dinner, or a wine tasting party more her style?

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you’re able to plan a fab event, but if she won’t enjoy it?

Dial Back a Destination Party

A three-day Vegas romp isn’t your only option.

Another tip: Rent a big house onAirbnborVRBOrather than a slew of hotel rooms.

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Some restaurants will create special, limited menus for big parties.

But it’s nice to have something that signals she’s the guest of honor.

Try a classy tiara, a subtle award ribbon, or searching for a vintage veil or fascinator onEtsy.

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