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There was no one else around for miles, yet the remote risk of getting caught was also thrilling.
Meaning: You won’t catch me in an airplane bathroom!"
It’s a cute way to let the other person know you’re feeling randy.
Elizabeth, 30, Chicago
“Recliner sex rocks!
The chair creates a natural rocking motion so you barely have to do any work.
Our recliner is really comfortable, so it’s perfect for sleeping in after, too.
How easy is that?”
Hearing all the kind things he has to say makes me swoon.
Sometimes I’ll even reread an old birthday or Christmas card he’s given me.
Who knew Hallmark could be such an aphrodisiac?"
*Sarah, 29, New York City
“Do it on Monday morning!
For me, nothing else beats beginning the week with some quick, hot sex.
No more Monday blahs.”
Once I’m in the shower, it’s on!"
I don’t actually use the vibration part at all.
Just applying pressure to my G-spot with the nub sends me over the edge.
I gave one to all my friends as gifts!"
It’s amazing how restorative these technology-free nights are.
I highly recommend trying it!"
Sometimes I’ll dress up, but it’s more of a mind game.
Whoever is playing the counselor has all the power and is using it to control the situation.
The camper feels vulnerable and innocentbut dirty.
It’s kind of like the first time you snuck out of the house to meet a boy.
You know you’re being bad and breaking the rulesthat’s the appeal."
I unbuttoned his shirt and unbelted his pants before he even had time to say hello.
It felt cheap and tawdry and totally hot."
The key to touching in public is to push the envelope but not be embarrassing or raunchy about it.
That’s what makes it exciting for himbecause on the surface, everything seems normal.
Watching his color change or his posture shift while being in on the secret is a turn-on.
And knowing I can have that effect on him is empowering."
Gwendolyn, 30, Brooklyn
“Since we started a family, early-morning sex has been fantastic.
I am relaxed and rested, and I haven’t entered ‘mom mode’ yet.
The kids are still sleeping, so there are no interruptions.”
It reminded me of making out with a guy in high school.
Let’s just say it inspired us to see Soundgarden in concert this summer!"
It focuses my mind on sex, not whatever else happens to be stressing me out right then.
It’s a win-win."
*Tanya, 42, Raleigh, North Carolina
“Lubes are a girl’s best friend!
This girl, anyway.
I really like Kama Sutra Love Liquid [$12;KamaSutra.com].
It’s unscented and doesn’t get sticky after a minute or two like some other lubricants.”
It’s also incredibly passionate, as if he can’t get enough of me."
It should be Baby, Honey, Stud Muffin or another generic nickname.
Hey, it’s worked for me for years!"
It gives me a little energy boost and makes doing the deed more enjoyable.
Everything’s better when it’s sweeter!"
In 60 to 90 seconds, I have several intense aftershocks.
Trishann, 34, Seattle
“Go to bed nude for a whole week!
Who needs porn when you’ve got the option to see yourselves?
Being able to delete them right away seems a lot safer than recording a video.”
Then have him slow way downwow!
I almost always have an orgasm when I do this."
Little did I know that it actually would!
I love watching him walk around the gym floor lifting while I sweat on the treadmill.
Then when we get home, it’s sexy-shower time!"
Cindy, 44, Chicago
Photo Credit: Arthur Belebeau
