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To help you out, we created the ultimate list of our very favorite sex toys for all.
Best Wand Vibrators
Most wand vibrators have ball-shaped heads, long handles, and intense motors.
A popular option for power-hunters, this 13-inch wand has four intensity options and four vibration patterns.
Original photo by SELF writer Gabrielle Kassel
It also has a flexible neck that lets you apply pressure at different angles for a more targeted sensation.
It has a cord, so you never have to worry about it crapping out on you mid-session.
Plus, its price tag isnt as high as those of some of its competitors.
One side has a round, squishy head that functions as an external vibe.
The other (a.k.a.
And since each side has a separate motor, it’s possible for you to use them independently.
Although itsexact location is debatedby researchers, its no secret that stimulating the area can feel fantastic.
The ultra-quiet toy has a uniquely flattened tip that makes it easier tofind and stimulate the hot spot.
Others have body-safe silicone lips, tongues, or petals that flick across the clit.
Original photo by SELF writer Gabrielle Kassel
Some rabbit vibes today have preserved this signature stylebecause if it aint broke, dont fix it.
Others have replaced the ears with shorter arms that curve towards the clit or suction mechanisms.
It has a two-hour battery life, is totally waterproof, and can be controlled via the We-Vibe app.
As a bonus, each arm has its own motor, so you might control them separately.
Just note that, unlike other rabbit vibrators, this one doesnt target the G-spot.
Dame reviewers also enjoy the toys silky smooth exterior and foreplay-friendly intensity.
Best Overall: We-Vibe Moxie+
Moxie+ Wearable Clitoral Vibrator
Searching for a wearable vibrator?
Dr. ORelly suggests this remote- and app-controllable option from We-Vibe.
The vibrations themselves are powerful but quietidea for thrill-seekers who enjoy the playful side of pleasure, she adds.
Many can fit inside a strap-on harness for additional stimulation duringpeggingand other strap-on sex acts, according to Wright.
Just keep in mind that theyre usually not anal-safe, since most models dont have a flared base.
The softness of the material is a welcome reprieve from harder sex toys, one SELF tester says.
It has seven vibration modes, eight intensity levels, and is super easy to use.
It also fits into most strap-on harnesses and hollow dildos.
This simple, whisper-quiet vibe has three intensities that ramp up from fluttery to eye-poppingly powerful, she says.
It can feel nice around the anal opening too.
An added bonus: Dame reviewers confirm that its super quiet.
It has 12 different parameters, two simple buttons, and is quiet (even at its strongest).
Butt plugs are usually carrot-shaped toys with flared bases.
They are designed to go in your butt and stay in your butt, Wright says.
This creates a feeling of fullness while leaving your hands free for other activities.
FYI: All anal toys should have a flared base so they wont get stuck inside your rectum.
Best Butt Plug: B-Vibe Novice
B-Vibe
Novice
Brand new to butt play?
Start with the B-Vibe Novice.
If vibration feels daunting for your first go-around, try using it as-is without turning it on first.
A word to the wise?
Double-check that a dildo is anal-safe before you sit on it, as not all of them are.
Measuring just 4.5 inches long, its perfectly sized for newbiesplus, its just $20.
Its a metal dildo with an arched body that lets you angle it more easily for internal massage.
It has different-sized weighted balls on each end to apply varying pressure.
Its made of stainless steela material that warms and cools, making it great for temperature play.
Not to mention, it has two separate bullet vibrator pockets for additional hands-free stimulation.
Place Starsi in your palm or face-up on a surface tozhuzh up your solo time.
Or, you’re able to angle the arms to provide more pinpointed stimulation wherever you want it.
When browsingless expensive sex toys, your best bet is to shop at reputable retailers, says Wright.
Alternatively, it’s possible for you to watch for salessome of which we cover here at SELF.
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Its also waterproof, rechargeable, and operated by a single button.
This $7, highly textured option from Iroha is a great addition to your masturbation practice.
Nestle the toy between your fingers with the petal-like indentations facing down.
Try the Nudge from Unbound, which is fairly thin, beginner-friendly, and easy to use.
If youre a beginner, I would definitely recommend this.
If you love how it feels when someone goes down on you, take a look atoral sex toys.
If you enjoyor are curious aboutanal play, then take a peek at some butt toys.
Each option also has a few extra pros and cons to consider.
Just know that silicone-based lube can cause silicone sex toys to break down over time.
Plus, they can be used fortemperature play.
If you plan to use it in a shared apartment, a quiet or non-motorized option is best.
Also worth researching: How intense is the toy, and how many configs does it have?
Original photo by SELF writer Gabrielle Kassel
Typically, the larger the toy, the stronger it will be.
(Wand vibrators are notoriously high-powered, for example, while bite-sized bullets deliver buzzier, lower-intensity pulses.)
The final list only includes options that earned twoenthusiasticthumbs up.
Frequently asked questions
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Cleaning your toys after use also helps them work properly and last longer, she adds.
First, rinse the toy under warm water to remove visible residue.
Then, wash it thoroughly using mild fragrance-free soap or a specialized sex toy cleaner, she says.
Pay close attention to textured areas or ridges, taking extra care to clean them thoroughly.
Stash them in a clean, closed box to prevent dust from building up on their surface.
