Wedding crasher

It started innocently with a pair of Christian Dior sunglasses in the window of a Madison Avenue boutique. I pulled out my credit card. Two weeks later, my fiance, Peter, and I lazed on a North Carolina beach. Everything was wonderful, except the Diors didn’t fit; my eyelashes kept hitting the right lens. Otherwise, the trip was fabulous, especially at night, when I didn’t need the glasses. On the drive back, my right eye began to itch....

January 17, 2009 · 5 min · 879 words · Peter Baker

"We'll never get out of debt"

I wake up to find my husband isn’t there. I look at the clock. It’s 5 A.M. Did he fall asleep on the couch? I find Pat in the living room, in the maroon chair, his knees to his chest. I crouch beside him. “What is it?” He looks at me, tears shining on his cheeks. It’s merely our debt, a problem I’m already well aware of. This particular morning, Pat is holding vigil over our money problems....

December 19, 2008 · 8 min · 1673 words · Dr. Audrey Meadows

Get fit in 15 minutes

Raise bent right leg behind you. Lean torso forward, left knee soft, reaching weights toward foot (as shown). Do 12 reps. Switch sides; repeat. Technique tipBalancing is a challenge in this precarious pose. Move in slow motion, with abs and butt tight, staring at a fixed point ahead. Bend knees and roll ball toward chest with feet (B). Do a full push-up to complete one rep. Do 12 reps. Technique tipPush-ups got you down?...

December 19, 2008 · 1 min · 197 words · Laura Shelton

Give Glitz

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Holiday sweaters have come a long way. Copyright Devon Jarvis (Remember the blinking Christmas tree?) A soft twinkle is elegant. Juicy Couture, $150; Bloomingdale’s This present is for you! With jeans and heels or a skirt and flats, it’s an instant showstopper. $15;OldNavy.com A generous helping of gems gives this cuff major fire power....

December 19, 2008 · 1 min · 129 words · Christine Ellis

Make it snappy

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. you could customize it with any photo in only a few days. The frame is waterproof. Each gift will feel unique, but you’ve done it all in a one-stop shop! If you goof, the paper is easily repositioned. $299;NeimanMarcus.com Give a clotheshorse what she wants: more space!...

December 19, 2008 · 1 min · 100 words · Paul Jackson

Presents that lift the spirits

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. $260;SilkNDreams.com Baby, it’s cold outside! Keep your sister’s hands (and heart) warm with these cozy mittens. $25;HenriBendel.com Customize cookies for coworkers with your own merry sentiments. To design the treats, go toBetterBatchBakers.com. $95;BathroomScaleArt.com A sleeker, slimmer shape, hues that pop plus more memory. And they said the iPod nano couldn’t get any groovier....

December 19, 2008 · 1 min · 111 words · Emma Reed

Road map for the new Self.com

Welcome to new and improved Self.com. Use it to find your favorite article, author, workout, recipe and more. On the results page, use the keywords below each result to browse similar articles on the same topic. 700-609407© Horst HergetModel ReleaseCouple in Convertible It’s an easy way to explore the entire site in one simple step! __Advanced recipe search__Our advanced recipe search will help you find the recipes you love without any hassle....

December 19, 2008 · 2 min · 368 words · Jennifer White

Sculpt sexy curves, pronto!

Create a stir Works: arms, calves Stand with feet hip-width apart. Hold bar vertically at arm’s length in front of you, one end on floor. Rise onto balls of feet. Lift bent left leg behind you. Lean forward so torso is parallel to floor; extend right arm. Do 12 reps. Switch sides; repeat. Hold bar vertically in right hand at least 12 inches from top, left hand on hip. Do 12 reps....

December 19, 2008 · 2 min · 255 words · Heather Morgan

Sporty splurges

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Want a pair of winged feet? Try the Reebok Premier Trinity KFS III sneakers, favored by Jessica Alba’s fitness expert Ramona Braganza. $120;Reebok.com Never get lost with the Garmin Forerunner 405 with GPS and heart-rate monitor. Jennifer Lopez’s pro, Gunnar Peterson, relies on it to track workouts....

December 19, 2008 · 1 min · 173 words · Travis Vega

Tasteful treasures

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. $21;The-TeaSpot.com Want to score home-baked sweets? Buy a buddy Vollrath’s cookie scoop; it holds about 100 calories' worth of batter. $12;BroadwayPanhandler.com A unique roasting process means Caffe Sanora boasts more antioxidants than your average joe. $25 for two bags;CaffeSanora.com Customize a cookbook for a friend....

December 19, 2008 · 1 min · 189 words · Jessica Mcdonald

Tell us your favorite causes

The AAA Foundation for Traffic Safetypromotes driving education and funds research to prevent injuries on the road. Accion Internationalprovides financial services to impoverished people worldwide. Action on Smoking and Healthagitates for stricter smoking bans. The Adoption Exchangehelps connect kids with families. AIDS Research Alliancefights to find a cure for HIV/AIDS. Alternative Gifts Internationalallows you to donate medical supplies, water purifiers and more to impoverished nations. American Farmland Trustworks to preserve U....

December 19, 2008 · 4 min · 718 words · Rachel Morales

The complete rankings

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December 19, 2008 · 2 min · 264 words · Steve Turner

Unwrap and unwind

All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors. However, we may receive compensation from retailers and/or from purchases of products through these links. Soon-to-be sommeliers will gain hosting expertise and heart-health help with a festive wine-tasting kit. Choose from red, white and sparkling sets. $120 and up;BottleRocketWine.com Taking outdoor strolls makes reducing blood pressure a snap. This camera’s built-in GPS unit lets your favorite wanderer record the exact location of her shots....

December 19, 2008 · 1 min · 159 words · Joe Mcdaniel